Call Him Daddy

By Frank Doll

Crush Daddy is a commanding presence wherever he goes. This month, he steps into a new role as one of KinkMen.com’s dominant tops where he exudes the confidence of someone who has spent years mastering both body and mind. A former basketball player, Crush brings disciplined athleticism to his performances. Sports once defined his world, and that foundation, later refined through years as a personal trainer focused on physique as much as performance, now fuels his onscreen authority. Speaking with us from his home in Houston, Texas, Crush opens up about his global upbringing, sexual fluidity, and his evolving

relationship with kink.

Frank Doll: Tell us about your early childhood.

CrushDaddy: I grew up in South Africa and Germany. It was difficult and lonely, especially

dealing with new languages and vastly different cultures.

FD: What prompted your family’s move to the United States?

CrushDaddy: I think it’s everyone’s dream to move to the U.S. When my dad was offered a

work opportunity, we did everything we could to make it happen.

FD: What role did sports play in your young life?

CrushDaddy: Sports were pretty much my entire life. It’s what I did all day, every day,

especially basketball.

FD: How did your basketball journey transition into a lucrative career as a male stripper?

CrushDaddy: Basketball didn’t actually play much of a role. The real shift happened after I

retired from sports and became a personal trainer. As an athlete, I trained for performance.

As a trainer, I learned how to train for physique and performance, which changed everything.

FD: Outside of performing, what are your favorite non-sexual hobbies or activities?

CrushDaddy: I’m a big gamer. I love challenging video games that push me mentally. I also

build my own computers to play on.

FD: When did you first begin exploring kink on camera, and what inspired that step?

CrushDaddy: Honestly, my work with KinkMen was my first experience with kink—on or off

camera. I’m open to almost anything, so I tried it and ended up loving it.

FD: You’ve said, “I’m a dom top, but never say never.” How does that mindset shape the roles

you’re open to exploring?

CrushDaddy: Being open-minded is something I really try to stick to. I don’t know how I’ll feel

on any given day, so I avoid setting ironclad rules for myself.

FD: Your gay fans were especially intrigued by that comment. Are there boundaries or role

reversals you’d consider under the right circumstances?

CrushDaddy: I’m sure I’ll explore almost everything at some point—before I’m too old to

explore anything anymore.

FD: As a bisexual performer working with both men and women, what excites you most about

bringing that fluidity into kink-focused projects?

CrushDaddy: Fluidity really excites me because it makes my mind and body feel so much at

once—it’s almost overwhelming. Bisexual experiences are still pretty rare on camera, and that

uniqueness really motivates me.

FD: What aspects of kink align most naturally with the persona fans know as Crush Daddy?

CrushDaddy: The overall daddy vibe. I enjoy it, and my fans enjoy seeing it. I’m always going

to be myself and only do what I want to do. That’s why, on my OnlyFans livestreams, I don’t

use a tip menu. I’m not a vending machine where you put money in and get a specific result. I

do what I want—if people want to tip, great. If not, they’re still welcome to enjoy the show.

FD: Are there specific dynamics or roles you’re curious about but haven’t yet explored?

CrushDaddy: I want to explore more bisexual and sexually fluid experiences. Not enough of

that has been done, and I think there’s a real audience for it.

FD: How do you balance your established stripper persona with the deeper psychological

elements of kink performance?

CrushDaddy: Kink performance is much deeper than stripping, honestly. That’s why I’ve

gravitated away from stripping and more toward adult content—it offers more to explore and

is way more fascinating to me.

FD: As you begin filming with partners of all genders, how important are chemistry, trust, and negotiation?

CrushDaddy: Chemistry is everything. Someone can be a perfect ten, but if there’s no

chemistry, I won’t feel anything sexually.

FD: How do you approach consent and communication when preparing for kink-heavy

scenes?

CrushDaddy: The same way with everyone. I like to have a real conversation about what

everyone’s comfortable with. I start slow and let my partner guide me on how far I can push

things.

FD: What do you hope audiences take away from your kink performances?

CrushDaddy: I hope they see multiple sides of me. I can be a gentle giant or a very dominant

top. I can be soft and loving, or overpowering—it all depends on the dynamic.

FD: Looking ahead, do you see kink as a long-term evolution of your brand or a bold

experiment?

CrushDaddy: I think kink is something I’ll always want to keep exploring. I don’t see 2026 as

my last year doing it at all.

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