Interview with Carnal+ Exclusive Sean Xavier

Tom Olah: How did you find yourself in the industry?

Sean Xavier: I actually started in the industry as a webcam model while I was still in undergrad. At first, porn was a way to gain exposure – a creative, sexy side hustle. But the more I leaned in, the more I realized how much I loved it. Performing gave me the chance to act out fantasies with incredibly attractive men while also connecting with fans who craved something real. Aside from a brief break after grad school, it’s been a steady through-line in my life ever since.

TO: What did you do before the industry?

SX: I was working in human computer interaction – designing apps and user experiences in

finance and e-commerce. I’ve also taught as an adjunct professor while pursuing grad school. So even when I wasn’t full-time in the adult space, I was still building systems, teaching and studying desire in different ways. Porn just became the most honest expression of all of that.

TO: What advice would you give to someone looking to start doing porn?

SX: Start by understanding what you want out of it – emotionally, artistically, financially. Don’t just

copy what other people are doing. And when you find collaborators who respect you and your vision,

stick with them. Porn works best when you treat it like performance and business. Protect your

boundaries. Honor your body. And don’t be afraid to bring your weird, your wild, your real self to camera.

TO:What obstacles, if any, have you run into while working in the industry?

SX: Balancing multiple identities – especially when you’re someone who straddles academia, tech and

porn. I had to navigate judgment, burnout, and the reality that not everyone can handle the complexity

of a performer who’s also a strategist, a designer and a dominant fantasy. But I’ve learned to integrate it all. I’m not playing a role – I’m building a world.

TO: How do you prepare yourself for a scene?

SX: I approach it like training: physically, mentally, erotically, and even spiritually. I’ll do light movement or gym work to warm up, tune into my body with breathwork, and slow my nervous system down.

Sometimes I pray, sometimes I do a grounding ritual – especially before high-intensity scenes. And if I’m

topping, I treat it like coaching. I’m guiding someone through their pleasure. That takes focus and trust.

TO: What are you focusing on at this point in your career?

SX: Right now, I’m exclusive with Carnal, and that’s been a game changer. I love the access to

incredible models, the high-level production, and especially the world-building. They’re not just

shooting scenes – they’re creating fantasy environments that let me push creative boundaries. I’m also

launching my own brand within that ecosystem, combining erotic mentorship with fantasy storytelling.

TO: How has your rise in popularity affected how you approach your career?

SX: It has made me more intentional. I used to say yes to everything – I wanted to be

everywhere, do everything. Now, I protect my energy. I think about legacy. What am I building that lasts beyond the scene? Who am I inviting into this world? I’m less interested in visibility for its own

sake, and more focused on creating experiences that feel aligned and unforgettable.

TO: How does it feel for yourwork to be recognized, like getting nominated for awards?

SX: It’s affirming. Not just for me but for the kind of work I want to see more of in the industry – work

that blends eroticism with intention, and gives performers the chance to create, not just perform. Every nomination is a reminder that fans and peers are watching – not just the sex, but the story behind it.

TO: Do you have anything special planned in the future that your fans would want to hear about?

SX: Absolutely. I’m developing a new series called Super Sean Xavier, where I play a dominant,

superhero-like trainer who helps men unlock power through erotic discipline. There’s a whole

narrative world coming – complete with alter egos, fan club content, and crossover stories that blur the lines between fantasy and reality. It’s porn, but with plot – and a lot of muscle.

TO: What is your ultimate goal in this industry, or in your life in general?

SX: To build something that changes how people experience porn. I want my work to awaken

something – whether it’s erotic, emotional or spiritual. At the core, it’s about embodiment: helping

people feel more in their bodies, more connected to their desires,

and more free to express them. But honestly? My relationship is the center of my world now. I’m

getting married, and that intimacy – real, grounded, transformative love – that’s the foundation for

everything I create. The goal is to build a life where art, sex, and love all reinforce each other.

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